I am very excited to be joining Behrman House publishers as their newest editor! They just sent out their official announcement today.
Behrman House is, of course a wonderful Jewish publisher with a long legacy of creating great educational books for kids. It is an honor to be joining them, and I hope I do ‘em proud!
Earlier this week, I had a conversation with a friend while I made some apple kugels. It was wide ranging, and the topics flowed from one to the other, not necessarily connecting. We talked food. Recipes. We spoke of the unfortunate story of the Agunah reported in the NY Post. Then we moved on to the crazy shidduch scene that her daughter is about to enter. The resumes, the shadchanim, and the insane questions that she and and her daughter were beginning to start fielding. Not an unusual conversation for two frum women of a certain age.
I hung up the phone, frustrated that the world isn’t a perfect place. But then it hit me—there was a connection between those topics. (not the apple kugel, but the others.)
From that connection was born my very modest proposal:
Why don’t we harness the insanity of one our problems—the shidduch scence– to help address the crisis of the other –the agunah issue?
The shidduch scene currently requires a full investigation of yichus, educational history, skirt lengths, hat color, work intentions, height, weight, nail polish preferences, and all other sorts of requirements. I propose a very simple question be added to the interrogation:
“Is the prospective girl/ boy willing to sign the Beit Din of America’s pre-nuptial agreement that was endorseded by numerous gedolim, (including Rav Ovadia Yosef ztl), and is in their words, ‘the single most effective solution to the agunah problem’.”
I’m sure others have suggested this before. I’m sure it’s not such a chiddush that I had over my apple kugel. But come on—how many more stories do we need to read in the NY Post? We are already asking plenty of idiotic questions in the shidduch process. Let’s at least ask one smart one.
I am very pleased to present the second online exhibition of the work of my Stern College students.
Their assignment was to create a greeting card image, and submit it to an existing greeting card company for consideration.
You can click on each of the images below to view them larger.
Thank you for visiting–Please feel share your thoughts in the comments below.
I am very pleased to present an online exhibition of the work of my Stern College students.
Their assignment was to select an existing published article that had no illustration, and create one for it. They were to visualize the piece as if it were for an op-ed page of a newspaper or magazine. The image they created had to be in black and white, and had to communicate the message of the article.
You can click on each of the images below to view them larger.
It’s the once-in-a-lifetime festival:”Thanksgivukah!” And yes, OF COURSE, I have a coloring page at the ready. I also have created a whole bunch of products for it over at zazzle: Art by AnnK. ( I put in on a mug, greeting cards, apron…stuff like that. Go and see).
Here’s the coloring page. Just click and print, as always:
What can I say? The Wall Street Journal just covered this on their front page today, so I had to keep up!
(and here it is as a pdf:turkey)
And if you are in a THANKING mood…don’t forget about THANK YOU FOR ME! by Rick Recht
Ah, September. The month of 3 day yom tovs.
But this week, we have a small break, at least, theres enough of one for me to get a coloring page up!
Wishing you and yours a g’mar tov!
(Having trouble printing from the image above? Try clicking on this pdf:succotfruit)
WOW the holidays are early this year. I just barely got this up in time, didn’t I? Just click on the image below and print.
And if you are having trouble getting it that way, here it is as a pdf: shofarman
***PLUS** BONUS: For the VERY FIRST TIME (drumroll)–one of my coloring pages has been featured, and actually added to—in Jcreate magazine. They took my apple and bees coloring page and very cleverly made it into a very pretty painted dish craft. Go check it out over here: JCREATE. (it’s on page 14)
My piece on storytelling just appeared in Jewish Action Magazine:
We all know the midrash: Once upon a time, many, many Rosh Hashanahs ago, Hashem looked into the Torah and used it as a blueprint to make the world—to make us.
So what is in the Torah that He used for material? What are we made of?
The simplest and most profound answer is: stories. Our DNA, our very essence, is primed to respond to stories.
The Torah, among many other things, is Hashem’s storybook. It starts with the tale of the birth of the world and continues with stories of brothers, families, children and eventually the birth of Am Yisrael. Hashem has spun tales that bind us as a nation and define our culture.
This Rosh Hashanah we will retell some of Hashem’s stories and pass them on—beautiful tales of the sacrifice of a father and the prayers of a mother longing for children.
But we are supposed to emulate Hashem, which means we must not just repeat His stories; we must each create and tell our own stories.
In Bruce Feiler’s recent book, The Secret of Happy Families (New York,
2013), he describes how foundational it is to tell family stories to our children. He cites a recent study in which psychologists asked children questions about their history, ranging from “Do you know where your grandparents grew up?” to “Do you know the story of your birth?” to “Do you know how your parents met?” The study’s conclusion was mindboggling: “The more children knew about their family’s history, the stronger their sense of control over their lives, the higher their self-esteem and the more successfully they believed their families functioned. The ‘Do You Know?’ scale turned out to be the best single predictor of children’s emotional health and happiness.”
Interestingly, he finds that these stories should include tales from both the immediate past as well as from history. When we tell our children the traditional stories that have been handed down to us from generation to generation, we are not just transmitting a code of behavior; we are connecting our children to the essence of who they are.
I thought I knew my own family’s stories. My dad had some great ones, such as how his father came to America, his love for his yeshivah rebbe and about his first pulpit in Wyoming. (That last one came with some great details, believe me.)
But then I interviewed my father through the Storycorps program. (Storycorps, storycorps.org, is one of the largest oral history projects of its kind. It records histories and stories and preserves them at the Library of Congress.)
I had never heard where my father was when he first found out about the Holocaust, how he knew my mom was the one he wanted to marry, what he thought when he first held me. I finally asked him these questions and was so moved to hear the answers—to hear those untold stories—that my view of the Holocaust, marriage and parenting immediately changed; I could suddenly view each from a new and meaningful angle.
As an author/illustrator, I attend many Jewish book programs where publishers speak about the kind of stories they look for. Their main message is: No more shtetl stories! There are so many Jewish kids’ books today that feature a matchmaker, a rebbe and a butcher. But our kids don’t just need shtetl stories; they need our stories— the ones where bubbie colors her hair, runs two miles a day and is into yoga. These modern stories help them place Judaism into their own context and reality.
So for my own kids, I’ll start the ball rolling and respond to some of those “Do You Know?” questions with a small sampling of the stories that answer them.
This year, I hope my stories will help my kids connect to the chain of tales that go back to the very birthday of the world. This year, I hope they will get to write their own chapters. And this year, I hope that our stories will help them—and all of us—be inscribed in Hashem’s book of happily ever after. Ketivah vachatimah tovah.
Ann D. Koffsky is the author/illustrator of more than twenty-five books for Jewish children. Her most recent isThank You for Me! with musician Rick Recht.