FJJ, week 7

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My intended response:

To the Daughter of the King,

Thank you for dialoging with me on this issue!
If you will indulge me, I’d like to respond your arguments from both your letters:

You suggest that by pointing to old Jewish artwork I am being disingenuous, since that was artwork, and we are discussing photos. You are correct; the Sarajevo artists who illuminated the famous 12th century Haggadah, for example, did not have photographs, so they used artwork. However, I have also mentioned that frum Jewish media has also always included photographs of women, including the Jewish Observer, the publication of the Agudah. Not showing images of women is a new idea, that began in the 1990s. (I believe that the first publication to do so in the US was the Yated.)

You quote Ruth Lichtenstein, saying there is a 1000s of year old tradition for this.
Yes, there is 1000s year old tradition for us to be modest. However, not including women is NOT part of our tradition; it is a brand -spanking new policy.

You point out that men have the obligation of shmiras anayim.
Yep.The Gemara even says that men may not gaze upon even a small finger of a woman. Yet, there is no halacha that women wear gloves; we show our provocative fingers out in public all the time! Perhaps that is because men have a responsibility; Women do NOT have to wear gloves, but men still have to not gaze at their fingers.

Honestly? I really think that most of our men are strong enough to handle the challenge of seeing a modestly dressed woman at the grocery store, and a modestly dressed woman in the newspaper. Don’t you? (If not, we gotta all get us some burqas…)

You suggested that showing our outstanding women like Sara Shenirer would be OK as inspiration, but does not apply to women today, since no one today is as impressive.
Here I must disagree with you most strenuously! Do you really think there are no amazing women out there today? Really? You must meet some more Jewish women; we have a wealth of riches! Are any of them as amazing as Sara Shenirer? Probably not, that’s a high bar. But why should we deny our kids today’s great role models?

You quoted the classic saying, that “The dignity of the daughter is to remain concealed in her palace”, not ogled by all and sundry. You also cited Sara as a role model, for choosing to be in the tent.

I simply do not think that in our society, a woman must stay home all the time. It is tznius, and entirely OK for women to enter the public sphere if their dress is appropriate. They can be tznius, AND walk outside, enter the workforce, drive carpool, go to school, deliver food to the hungry, teach in our schools, run a gemach…and appear on the pages of the FJJ.

Yes, Sara was in the tent, and she is an amazing example. But, Devorah was under the palm tree, serving as judge. She is an exceptional example, too. Our Torah has given us an amazingly diverse group of women in roles, both public and private, as models. How wonderful that we have so many choices of how to serve Hashem!

Thank you again for taking the time to dialogue with me,

Sincerely,

Ann Koffsky,
Daughter of a Rabbi and Rebbetzin

FJJ, week 6

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FJJ, week 5

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FJJ, week 4

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FJJ: Week 3

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FJJ: week 2

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Flatbush Jewish Journal: the letters, week 1

I have collected the dialogue that has been going back and forth in the letters column about Women and pictures in the Flatbush Journal.

(Please note that the articles appear small on screen, but if you click on them they should open larger so you can read them.)

It started with the FJJ reprinting my article that I had published for Jewish Action article as a letter in their 5/12 issue:

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Flowers for Shavuot

Add color to this graphic image, and you’ll have vivid flowers for Shavuot! Just click on the image, print and color.

Chag Sameach!flowersspringblack

 

(and here it is as a pdf: flowersspringblack)

Frogs in the Bed Coloring page

Frog’s were EVERYWHERE!

frogseverywhere frogseverywherefrogseverywherecolorpagebathbhJust click on the image below and print to have some frogs in your home, too.

 

(And here it is if you need it as a JPEG: frogs everywhere)

 

 

 

 

 

Of course, if you want more frog related Passover fun, check out Frogs in the Bed!

 

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Esther P. wins!

Congratulations to Esther P. for winning the “Who knows 2?” Passover book raffle.
Happy Pesach to everyone!

 

Ann